The most badass gift you can give this holiday season (and it's free)

In the chaotic final days of the year, we're all scrambling for last-minute gifts. We stress over finding the perfect item that says, "I care about you."


But what if the most valuable, most meaningful, and most badass gift you can give doesn't come in a box?


The greatest gift you can give is your undivided presence.


In a world of constant distraction, with phones buzzing and notifications firing, offering someone your full, focused attention has become a radical act of love and respect.

What does this look like in practice?

• It means putting your phone away—not just face down on the table, but out of sight—when you're having a conversation.

• It means actively listening to understand, instead of just waiting for your turn to talk.

• It means quieting the mental to-do list in your head and actually being there with the person in front of you.

• It means making eye contact, noticing their energy, and engaging with them as a whole person.


Giving your presence says, "You are more important than any notification. This moment with you matters." It makes people feel seen, heard, and valued in a way that no material gift ever could.


This holiday week, whether it's with your partner, your parents, your kids, or an old friend, try giving this gift. Just for ten minutes. Put the distractions away and be fully present. Notice the difference it makes.


It's the quietest gift you'll give all year, and it might just be the one they remember most.

Badasses aren't born, they're built. So let's get to work.

In Be a Badass Man, we dive into the power of presence and how it transforms relationships.